Boys are stupid, Throw rocks at them....

Here is the back story:
I have been dating this guy for 6 months. His name is Luke and he is everything I could have ever asked for. He is an EMT, has his own car, a mouth full of teeth, drug free, drinks rarely, and is stable. He also is 23 years old and has a son who lives in Nevada. He is my rock, my other half, and visa versa.

Here is the current story:
Luke left for Nevada last Wednesday(June 15, 2011) to visit his son while his ex is out of town. He was supposed to return on June 19th. But since it was father's day and he got his son for an extra day he stayed another day. (Now, before I get too deep into this story, we txt and call each other ALL THE TIME and when I say, "all the time" I mean ALL THE TIME!!!)

The day he left he called saying that he was on his way out of state. He texted me saying he crossed into Nevada, called me when he crossed the new bridge in Nevada, sent me a picture message of the gateway to Reno, NV. But once he got to his final destination the text messages nearly stopped. He called ONCE over a span of 6 days and he called when he knew I was at the movie with my parents and unable to answer my phone. When I asked if he would call in the morning he said that he would and never did. Same thing happened when I asked if he would call before he laid down to sleep. Then when I finally get a phone call, it was to tell me that he was having car trouble and that he didn't know when he would be home. It is now Wednesday, June 23rd. I have heard nothing from him. No calls, No text messages, No e-mails or instant messages, No nothing. I will admit, at first I just thought that I was being paranoid and over thinking everything. But the more people I talk to about it, the more that people say that there is something not right.

Is it really so hard to pick up the phone (which I believe is surgically attached to his anatomy) and send me a simple text message saying, "Hey, I am still in Nevada. My car was fixed. I plan on heading back to Arizona in the morning" or "Hey, I am still alive." I DON'T THINK SO!!!! Why does it take me having to initiate the conversation to find out if my significant other is alive or not. I went to war. I have seen first had that horrible things happen in this world to the most innocent of people. I have also learn that when you enter a monogamous relationship that you keep your mate in the loop. Just because you leave the state does not mean you cut contact.

You know that saying, "hell hath no fury like a woman's scorn"? Well I have some serious wrath built up from this experience and guess who is the recipient of it... oh yea... It is a male human being by the name of Luke and guess what... this woman is a registered lethal weapon and the 'lethal' part was capitalized. So someone better pray for that boy because when he gets here he will be begging for the devil to save him.

This is why boys are stupid and we should throw rocks at them.